Friday, 15 July 2011

Losing Your Identity When In Love?

(This is a re-post from THIS SITE)

... Life is just wonderful and both of you are having the time of your life. Days pass and things settle into a routine. You admire him and he admires you, both of you want to please each other. It has been a harmonious relationship because you adjust with him and like him for what he is. Sometimes this is where things start to break up...

... Love is always considered as a mutual relationship of caring, mutual respect for each other and thus sacrifice and compromise to make each other happy and contended. Compromise is a very important aspect of a love relationship... It is important to be yourself, only then can you enjoy. It is again important to know your partner well and be accommodating at most times...

Many times women in a relationship stop talking to their long time male friends in fear of partner not trusting her. It become tough for her as she loses someone whom she genuinely enjoyed talking to and had a clean relationship... If you love going to parties, and your partner hates it, you need not be submissive and not go for it. Instead, talk to each other... When in love there is a tendency of doing a lot of things for the other person, in the process one forgets one’s self. That is a real issue and you will not be absolutely happy forgetting yourself. If someone likes you, it is for what you are; so DON’T CHANGE YOURSELF.

Love yourself first. Only then can you love someone else wholeheartedly... Communication can make or break a relationship. Talk things out to each other... Don’t lose your identity in the process of loving someone. Be yourself, it surely can make your love life an amazing experience for life.


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